Kwiminyaka ye-4 yeminyaka, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana sele ikho thatha inyathelo lomzimba kunye nengqondo29 ephawula uguquko olukhulu kuphuhliso lwayo. Bazimele ngakumbi kwaye uninzi lwabo sele lufundile ukufumana uxanduva lwakho oluncinci ekuqaleni kwesikolo. Umzimba wabo ufumene amandla kwaye bayazi ukuba oku kubanika inkululeko engakumbi, bayazi ukuba baqala ukuba yinxalenye yokukhula kwabo kwaye baqala ukuziva bebadala noko.
Nangona isenokungabonakali ngathi ineminyaka emi-4 ubudala baqala inqanaba labo leemvakalelo, bacinga ngokuqina ngakumbi kwaye isimilo sabo siqala ukumakishwa. Kule minyaka sele benazo ngokwaneleyo izixhobo zokuba bakwazi ukunika izimvo kwiimvakalelo zabo kwaye ke ngoko Umsindo kufuneka wehle ngamandla.
Kunjani ukukhula kwengqondo yomntwana oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala
Abantwana Sele beqala ukuthetha ngokucacileyo kunye nendlela yabo yokubeka izimvo okanye yokuchaza izinto sele isinika umqondiso ocacileyo wokuba zikhula njani. Ubomi babo bunikezela kumnqweno wokufuna ukwazi kwaye baya kuhlala bebuza imibuzo.
Esikolweni bafunda ukuba loluphi ulwimi olubhaliweyo, Zinjani iileta kwaye zithini izandi zazo? Abanye baya kufunda ukubhala amagama abo ngokwazi indlela elenziwa ngayo igama. Ekuveleni kwayo Bayakuwabona amanani kwaye banokubala ukuya kwishumi. Kwizinto baya kuyazi ukuba zinjani iimilo kunye nemibala Kwaye baya kuyazi indlela yokubeka -up-, -down-, -side-and -in. Bafunda ngokugqibeleleyo ukwazi igama lika iinyanga namaxesha onyaka.
Bayazi ngakumbi Thetha ngokuzimeleyo, Bayayazi indlela yokujonga ngakumbi kumxholo onomdla. Umxholo wefantasy usesentloko yakho, kodwa sele uyazi Ukohlula njani kwinyani. Uyaziqonda iikhonsepthi "zilingana" kwaye "zahlukile", kwaye xa beqala ukuzoba abantu ephepheni, bazobela kwiindawo ezi-4 zomzimba.
Banesakhono esikhulu sokukhumbula kwaye sele beqala ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi kunye namakhadi. Bayayazi nendlela yokubalisa iimovie okanye amabali abawabonileyo kwaye nasesikolweni bafunda ukwenza cengceleza imibongo encinci.
Uphuhliso lomzimba nolwengqondo
Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-4 bafunda ukuba neengcinga ezingcono kunye Izakhono zakhe ezixineneyo zeemoto ziqala ukwenza amanyathelo amakhulu: Hamba ulula, tsiba utsibe nzima ubambe ukuya kwimizuzwana emibini kwiinyawo zakho.
Sele beqala ukuya bamba ibhola ngakumbi kunye nengqondo yakhe iyakwazi ukubamba ibhola egxekayo. Imidlalo abayidlalayo nabahlobo ithatha ukubalasela ngakumbi kwaye banako dlala imidlalo yokhuphiswano.
Kwizakhono zakhe ezifanelekileyo zemoto Unokubhala oonobumba abakhulu kuba uyakwazi ukubamba ipeni ngcono xa ebhala. Ukulungelelanisa iliso lesandla lakhe kuphuculwe kakhulu kwaye unako bamba iindawo ezincinci kakhulu, ziphathe kwaye uzilingane. Uya kufunda ukwenza iipuzzle zeminyaka yakho ngaphandle kobunzima.
Ukutya kunye nokuhlala nabantu abaneminyaka emi-4 ubudala
Indlela yokutya kufuneka ilungelelaniswe kwaye isempilweni kangangoko. Sele kufuneka baqale Yitya ukutya okutyiwa ngumntu wonke ekhaya. ngaphandle kokupheka izitya ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ayikenziwa, kuya kufuneka baqale ukuyiqhela kancinci kancinci.
Ukuba abantwana bayathandabuza ukutya kwaye kunzima kubo ukuba bazise ukutya okutsha, kuyakufuneka oko uthotho lweencasa kunye noburhabaxa etafileni kubo ukuba bakhethe ukhetho lwabo. Musa ukubanyanzela okanye ukubangxamisa, kodwa endaweni yoko bonisa ukutya njengendlela onokukhetha ngayo ngaphandle kokuyinika ukubaluleka. Isebenza ngcono kakhulu ngaloo ndlela. Ngokungaziva unyanzelekile, ukhetho lokutya lwenziwe lula kubo. Ukongeza, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana bayakwazi ukutya ngokukhululekileyo, sebenzisa izitya ngokulula, usike ukutya kwaye ukuchoboze ngokulula.
Intlalontle yabantwana iqala esikolweni, Sele benza amaqela abahlobo kunye nezinto zokudlala ngokuthe ngcembe kwabelwana ngazo. Kodwa ungalibali ukuba amaxesha amaninzi bafuna ukudlala bodwa kwaye kuya kufuneka uhloniphe xa bengafuni ukwabelana ngeethoyi. Bayakonwabela ukudlala amaqhawe, oomama, ootata ... dlala abanye abalinganiswa, kuba bayazithanda iimpahla.
Ukuqukumbela, abantwana isengabantu abancinci abathi bafuna olona thando nentlonelo inkulu. Ngokufikelela kubudala beminyaka emine sele bekhulile, kodwa hayi badala kakhulu ukuba bangabaphatha ngale nto bengeyiyo. Kufuneka siqhubeke ixesha nabo, dlala kwaye babelane ngothando nokuhleka, kuba isengabantwana abancinci.