umabonwakude wosapho

Abantwana abancinci kunye nomabonwakude

Kuyenzeka ukuba ngenye imini uyokusebenzisa umabonwakude njengomgcini womntwana ... Amaxesha ngamaxesha kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ulumke ngokuyisebenzisa kakhulu ... abantwana bakho bayakudinga!

Ukuzikhusela ngokugqithisileyo

Emva kokuzikhusela ngokugqithisileyo

Kukho umahluko phakathi kokukhusela nokuzikhusela ngokugqithisileyo. Fumanisa umahluko kunye neziphumo zokuzikhusela ngokugqithisileyo ebantwaneni.

Umama ungxolisa unyana wakhe ngokuziphatha kwakhe okungalunganga.

Yintoni ongayenzi xa ukhuza umntwana

Umntwana uneendlela ezithile zokuziphatha njengabazali ekufuneka engxolisiwe kwaye ziguqulwe. Ukuthethisa umntwana kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye oku kwenzelwe ukuphucula iimfuno zomntwana kunye nemithetho. Xa ukhuza uyakufundiswa, kodwa ngaphakathi kunamathelelwano kwaye ngaphandle kokonakala ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.

Imisebenzi yangaphandle nabantwana

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ent5m5UsiA0&t=107s ¡Hola mamás! ¿ Que tal lleváis la entrada del otoño? Nosotras volvemos a proponeros actividades con La familia Pig se va de excursión nocturna a ver las estrellas ¡conseguirán ver alguna estrella fugaz y pedirle un deseo?

Inkwenkwe irhuqa ityesi yayo eqengqelekayo kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya.

Ifashoni yesutikheyisi yabantwana enamavili

Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ibingakholeleki into yokuba umntwana omncinci akwazi ukuphatha eyakhe ityesi enamavili. Makhe sithethe ngezinto zamva nje Umntwana unokusebenzisa ityesi yabantwana enamavili kwaye afunde izakhono zentlalo, ukuzimela kunye noxanduva.

izinto ezisandul 'ukuzalwa

Iminqweno esandula kuzalwa

Iintsana ziyathandeka, ziyathandeka kwaye zigcwele ukuthanda ukwazi. Ungaphoswa zezi zinto zibalulekileyo zokuzalwa kwabantwana osenokungazazi.

Intombazana iphupha ngokuba yimfazwe ejongene nerhamncwa.

Amantombazana nawo angadlala amaqhawekazi

Inani lentombazana eluntwini, nangona lifumene isikhundla esingcono, liyaqhubeka ukuba kude kunelo lenkwenkwe kwiindawo ezininzi, uphawu olusisigxina xa imeko engqongileyo kunye noluntu kufuneka lusebenze ukunika intombazana inkululeko engakumbi kwaye ingagxininisi kwindima yesini. akukho mida.

Abantwana abancinci bayadlala

Yintoni uMdlalo weHuristic?

Kwizikolo zabantwana abancinci, imisebenzi eyilelwe ukukhulisa abantwana ngokweminyaka yabo iyenziwa, enye yezona zinto zisebenza kakuhle ngumdlalo we-heuristic

abazali abanetyhefu

Iimpawu zabazali abanetyhefu

Indlela okhetha ngayo ukuba ngumzali iya kumchaphazela umntwana wakho bonke ubomi bakhe. Ungaphoswa ziimpawu zabazali abanetyhefu.

Intombazana encinci edlala ngaphandle, uziva onwabile kwaye ekhuselekile.

Ukwaziswa kokungabikho kobundlobongela ebantwaneni

Umba wobundlobongela ngumba osichaphazelayo sonke. Kubalulekile ukuba usebenze kwaye ufundise abantwana besebancinci ngentsingiselo yokwenza ngaphandle kokulimaza.Umsebenzi wabazali kunye nootitshala kukufundisa umntwana ngokuhlonipha abanye. Kukulungele ukumenza ukuba azi ukuba akukho lubundlobongela kwaye umnike izixhobo.

Intombazana iphupha ngokuba ngumfoti owaziwayo.

Ngomsebenzi ndifuna ukuba ...

Okwangoku inani lobugcisa kunye nemisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe kufuneka inyuke kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwipesenti yabemi, malunga naBantwana baneenjongo zabo zamathuba emisebenzi kwixa elizayo. Abazali nootitshala mabavule indlela kwaye babanike izixhobo zokukhetha.

Uyenza njani ilipstick

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRYBROvOi-A&t=8s ¡Hola mamás! Seguro que muchas ya habréis experimentado la curiosidad que el maquillaje despierta en Con este didáctico juego aprendemos a elaborar nuestro propio pintalabios jugando a ser pequeños científicos ¡que divertido!

Isiphumo se pygmalion abantwana

Isiphumo sePygmalion ebantwaneni

Ngaba uyazi ukuba ngolindelo lwethu sinokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha kwabanye? Fumanisa amandla esiphumo sepygmalion ebantwaneni.

Utata uphuza usana lwakhe

Mama zivela phi iintsana?

'Mama, zivela phi iintsana?' Zilungiselele ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci uhlasele ungalindelanga ngenye imini ngalo mbuzo ...

Intombazana yenza umsebenzi wasekhaya wobuntwana iyodwa.

Wuphephe umzabalazo ongunaphakade nomsebenzi wasekhaya

  Unyaka emva konyaka abantwana nabazali kufuneka bajongane nomsebenzi ongekenziwa esikolweni. Ekhaya, abazali kufuneka baphinde bafunde izifundo ezahlukeneyo.Umzabalazo oqhubekayo wabazali nabantwana uyaqhubeka xa kufikwa kumba wokujongana nexesha lomsebenzi wasekhaya, ngenxa yokugqitha, ukungaqondi, ukudinwa, nokudinwa.

Abantwana benza umsebenzi oqhelekileyo.

Funda ukwabelana uze kwi-kindergarten

Ukwabelana akukho lula kumntwana omncinci. Yindlela yokunxibelelana ukuba kufuneka ufunde kancinci kancinci. Ekhaya, ukuba unabantakwabo okanye nabahlobo, Xa umntwana efika enkulisa kuya kufuneka afunde ukunxibelelana nabanye abantwana rhoqo kwaye ke asebenze ngokwamaqela kwaye abelane.

Buyela esikolweni

Ukubuyela esikolweni sele kuza kuqala

Ukubuyela esikolweni sele kuza kuqala ... kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo kunye neendlela! Kuya kufuneka wenze utshintsho ngoku, kuya kuba lula!

Umama wenza umsebenzi wasekhaya nonyana wakhe

NgoSeptemba iiMviwo zokuZenza: Ixesha leCrunch

USeptemba usondele kwikona kwaye abanye abantwana kuya kufuneka bajongane neemviwo zokuzilungisa kungekudala. Ehlotyeni ziingcebiso zokunceda umntwana wakho alungiselele iimviwo zokuzenzela zikaSeptemba kwezi ntsuku zokugqibela zeholide.

Sifumene ityesi yabantwana yokudlala

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqCg0FuolPo&t=35s&pbjreload=10 !Hola chicas! ¿ Que tal el verano? Seguro que muy entretenidas con vuestros Conocemos todos los juguetes y complementos que trae nuestra muñeca en su maleta ¡que divertido! Podempos conocer nuevos juguetes y accsorios para bebés.

Mama, kutheni ndingafundi kwi-Intanethi endaweni yokuya esikolweni?

Abantwana bakho banokubuza umbuzo ophezulu kweli nqaku ngexesha elinye. (Mama, kutheni ndingakwazi ukufunda kwi-intanethi endaweni yokuya? Kukho abantwana abakhetha ukufundela ekhaya, kwaye bangathanda ukungayi esikolweni. Oku kumazwe amaninzi akucingeki ngexesha lokufunda okunyanzelekileyo.

Fundisa abantu abadala abanoxanduva ngale migangatho ebuntwaneni

Siphila kwihlabathi eliya lisanda ukutshintsha, apho abantwana bekhula benemvume engakumbi kunye nolawulo oluncinci, kodwa enyanisweni bobabini abagabadeleyo kwaye abantwana kufuneka babe ngabantu abadala abanenkathalo, kodwa kuya kufezekiswa kuphela ukuba ubafundisa ngemithetho ebuntwaneni.

Wonwabile umfana

Ungalukhuthaza njani uvuyo ebantwaneni

Uvuyo yenye yeemvakalelo ezisisiseko zabantu. Ithanda unxibelelwano, isivumela ukuba sabelane ngamaxesha amnandi emini kwaye ivelise kufuneka sikhuthaze ulonwabo kubantwana bethu ngexesha lobuntwana babo, sibancede bayiqonde, bayazi ukuba bayilawula njani, bayonwabele kwaye babelane ngayo nabanye.

Umfazi oncumileyo phambi kolwandle, ufotwa liqabane lakhe, elisandula ukumnika isipha seentyatyambo.

Isizathu sokuvuya kwam nguwe

Njengabantu, ukuxabisa nokuxabisa oko kukujikelezileyo okanye phambi kwamehlo kunokukhokelela ekwamkeleni ngokuzolileyo amaxesha ahleliyo kunye nokuqonda Ukuziva ulungile nesiqu sakho, nendalo esingqongileyo, ukuxabisa okuhle ebomini kwaye ungoyiki ukuba kuko, kuguqulela kwinkululeko, ulonwabo novuyo.

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba abantwana bathanda ukufunda ntoni?

Izizathu zokwenza ikhontrakthi yokuziphatha

Ikhontrakthi yokuziphatha kukukhetha okuhle kubantwana abakwishumi elivisayo nakwishumi elivisayo ukuba babe nokuziphatha okungcono kwaye nokwenza ikhontrakthi yokuziphatha kunye nabangaphambi kokufikisa sisicwangciso esiliqili sokulungisa indlela yokuziphatha. Baya kukhuthazeka ukuba bayenze!

Abantwana ababini babambene ngezandla ngelixa bencumile.

Ukubaluleka kwabahlobo ebuntwaneni

Ukulungiselela abantwana ukuseka ubuhlobo nabanye abantwana yenye yemisebenzi ephambili yophuhliso ebuntwaneni bokuqala. Abahlobo, ukuqala kubahlobo kubalulekile ebomini babantu ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ubuhlobo kufuneka busempilweni kwaye busempilweni ukuze uphumelele!

Yoyisa iintloni abantwana

Ngaba kulungile ukuqeqesha umntwana womnye umntu?

Kungenzeka ukuba ngenye imini xa usepakini ukhe wacinga ngokunika isohlwayo kumntwana womnye umntu kuba khange balunge kumntwana wakho. Kodwa wakhe wasiva isidingo sokwenza uqeqesho lomntwana womnye umntu? Ngaba kulungile kuwe ukuba ukwenze okanye kukulungele ukuba uyeke?

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi indlela yokukhuthaza ukukhula okunempilo kwesini somntwana?

Izizathu zokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo ebantwaneni

Abantwana banokuba nokuziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga ngokwesondo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kuyakufuneka uzazise ngayo ngaphambi kokuba wothuke.Kukho amaxesha apho abantwana beziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo. Kwiimeko ezininzi kungenxa yokungazi, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.

Ukufunda kwamantombazana

Umsebenzi wesikolo ehlotyeni, ewe okanye hayi? Ingxaki kanaphakade yabazali

Ihlobo lifikile kunye neeholide zabantwana. Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokujonga ingxaki yangunaphakade: umsebenzi wesikolo ehlotyeni, ewe okanye hayi? Kukho Ehlotyeni abantwana baneentsuku ezininzi zeholide. Ngaba kufuneka basebenzise ihlobo ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo kwaye bangaphulukani nesiqhelo okanye bonwabele ixesha labo lokuphumla?

funda abantwana

Indlela yokuphucula ukufunda ngokutyibilikayo kwabantwana bakho

Ukufunda kusisiseko kubomi bakhe nawuphi na umntu, abantwana bafunda ukufunda besebancinci phantse ngokwendalo. Akungombono ulungileyo ukubanyanzela okanye abantwana kufuneka babe nokufunda okutyibilikayo kakuhle ukuze baqonde isicatshulwa kakuhle, nto leyo eyimfuneko nakweyiphi na indawo ebomini.

iindlela ezahlukeneyo zemfundo

Ezinye iindlela zokufundisa

Imfundo yesiNtu iyasilela, kwaye ezinye iindlela zokufundisa zenza indawo yazo endaweni yazo. Fumanisa ukuba zeziphi.

Umama onomntwana osisithulu

Ukukhulisa umntwana osisithulu

Okwangoku abazali bomntwana osisithulu bajongana nothotho lobunzima kunye nemiceli mngeni ekufuneka beyoyisile imihla ngemihla.

Sidibana nehlekisayo uMnu

Sidibana noMhlekazi uPotato ohlekisayo oza kuya ethekwini eJuguetitos. Sisonke siza kufunda izinto ezininzi.

Ipeyinti yokudibanisa neplastiki

Namhlanje sidlala njengabapheki kunye nokufunda indlela yokwenza izinto zokwenza udongwe ngale vidiyo imnandi yeeToys ezincinci, ungaphoswa!

Ukwamkela umntwana ongamzelanga ibengowakho

Usapho aluzalwanga, luyenziwa

Musa ukuwela kwimpazamo yokucinga ukuba zonke izibophelelo zizinto eziphilayo, uthando luyinto oyihlakulela imihla ngemihla. Apha uya kufunda ngeendlela zokubonisa uthando lwakho ngeyona ndlela iluncedo emntwaneni wakho.

Iibhotile zemvakalelo ezinemibala

Iibhotile zemizwa zabantwana: ungazenza ngokwakho

Iibhotile zemizwa ziluncedo ekuvuseleleni umdla wabantwana kwaye zivuselele izivamvo zabo, ngakumbi ukubona kunye nokuva. Kulula kakhulu kwaye kungabizi ukwenza. Iintsana ziya konwaba kunye nabo kwaye abantu abadala banokukunceda ekuzilungiseleleni.

Ingobozi yobutyebi: ukonwaba kunye nokukhuthaza usana

Ingobozi yobuncwane ngumdlalo wokuhlola obonelela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo emntwaneni wakho ukuphucula ukukhula kweengqondo zabo. Imalunga nokulungiselela ibhaskithi enezinto zemihla ngemihla, ezahlukileyo kwinto zokudlala zesintu, kwaye uzinike umntwana ukuze badlale ngokukhululekileyo rhoqo phantsi kweliso lakho.

Ummangaliso wombulelo kubomi bosapho

Umbulelo lixabiso ekufuneka lisetyenziselwe kubomi bosapho kuba abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuba nombulelo ukuze bakhule ngokulinganayo ngokweemvakalelo.

UMariya

Umama ndifuna ukuba kubantwana bam

Sonke sihlala sizibuza ukuba ingaba luhlobo lomama esifuna ukuba lulo, nantsi imbonakalo yobuqu malunga nohlobo lomama endifuna ukuba ngabo kubantwana bam

Usuku Lomhlaba

Ixabiso lokufundisa abantwana ngoMhla woMhlaba

 Elinye lamaxabiso abaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka sibethelele ebantwaneni bethu luthando kunye nentlonipho ngeplanethi esihlala kuyo. Ngesi sizathu, ngoMhla woMhlaba, sikulethela ezinye izimvo zokubonisa abantwana malunga nokukhathalela umhlaba.

Ingca entsha

Wazi umhlaba njengentsapho

Usuku loMhlaba lusuku lokwazisa ngononophelo lomhlaba. Fumanisa iindlela zokukhuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bazikhathalele ngokufanelekileyo.

Ukubala komntwana kwimathematika

Zithini iinjongo ezininzi?

Ngokwethiyori yeengqondo ezininzi zesayikholojisti uHoward Gardner, ubukrelekrele bomntu ngamnye sisixa seengqondo ezisi-8 ezinxulumene nobuchule nobuchule obahlukeneyo. Yazi ukuba zeziphi ezi 8 zeengqondo kunye neziphumo eziphambili zalethiyori kwicandelo lezemfundo.

Funda amabali ngokuvakalayo

Ukufundiswa kwamabali, ukubaluleka komxholo

Amabali ebesoloko esebenzela ukufundisa into, sichaza ukuba kutheni umxholo ubalulekile ukufumana umyalezo ngokuchanekileyo. Amabali amnandi ngalawo ahambelana nosapho lwakho.

Ibhayisikile enamavili amathathu endala

Into yakhe yokudlala ayithandayo

Kungenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho uneethoyi ezininzi, ezintsha nezimenyezelayo, kodwa ufuna nje ukudlala eso silwanyana sifakiweyo, imoto okanye ibhayisikile enamavili amathathu, indala, imdaka kwaye yaphukile. Namhlanje sichaza ukuba kutheni le nto yokudlala ingenakubuyiselwa kumntwana wakho.

fundisa ngaphandle kokukhwaza

Iingcebiso zokufundisa ngaphandle kokungxola

Sonke sinokulahlekelwa ngumsindo ngexesha elithile, kodwa akufanele sikwenze njengendlela yokufunda. Ukufundisa ngaphandle kokungxola kusebenza ngakumbi ngakumbi. Fumanisa ukuba njani!

Ixesha lokuhlambela nabantwana

Sifunda ukuba kubaluleke kwaye kumnandi ukuhlamba imihla ngemihla kunodoli wethu weNenuco, onethuba elihle lokuqokelela nokudlala kunye neethoyi zakhe.

Iimvakalelo zomntwana

Sukundithuthuzela ngo "Kulungile."

Ngamanye amaxesha siyawa kwaye siphume singonzakalanga, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, ulusu lwethu luyaphuka okanye iimvakalelo zethu ziyakrwempa. Isiphango sabo sidlula kwiintsana zethu ekufuneka ziqinisekisiwe kwaye zamkelwe ukuze abantwana bethu bakhule bephilile ngokweemvakalelo.

xa besenza iinkumbulo ebantwaneni

Baqala nini abantwana ukwenza iinkumbulo

Ubuchopho babantwana bufana nesiponji, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile asinazo iinkumbulo zethu xa sasisebancinci. Fumanisa ukuba iinkumbulo ziqala nini ukubakho ebantwaneni kwaye ngoba.

Umama uyayingxolisa intombi yakhe

Usihlalo kunye nekona lokucinga?

Usihlalo kunye nekona yokucinga zizixhobo ezibini ezisetyenziswa ngokubanzi ukulungisa isimilo esingafunekiyo ebantwaneni abancinci. Ziqulathe ntoni? Ngaba zilungele yonke iminyaka? Funda malunga neendlela ezizezinye kwezi ndlela zimbini, ngokusekwe kwimfundo yeemvakalelo.

UNenuco uyagula aze agabhe

Sinika iiNenucos zethu ezimbini i-snack, kodwa enye iyagula kwaye iphosa ibhotile, ke kufuneka simse kwagqirha ukuze amnyange, kumnandi kangakanani!

ukuxhatshazwa

Unyana wam ungumxhaphazi weklasi

Ngendlela abacinga ngayo abantwana bethu, sinokuthi ngenye imini sifumanise ukuba umntu ofunda naye uxhatshazwa. Fumana apha indlela yokujongana nale meko.

Ulwimi-mbini neyantlukwano

Sithetha ngokuthetha iilwimi ezimbini, ukuba yintoni, indlela yokwenza ukuba umntwana wakho athethe iilwimi ezimbini kunye nokubaluleka anako ekwakheni uluntu olwahlukeneyo.

8m, umfazi okhulelweyo

Ukomelela kwabasetyhini kubumama

Umama wonyusa ukomelela kwabasetyhini. Amandla abantu basetyhini aba mhle ngokuba ngumama kuba ngoku ineendlela ezimbini: ngokubhekisele kwiintombi zethu, ukubathanda nokubakhulisa, kwaye kuthi ngokwethu, ukuba ngunina, obathandayo kwaye obakhathaleleyo, owasetyhini onamaxabiso kunye izimvo ukuba uhlala kwaye uyazikhusela.

uhlobo

Uyifaka njani indalo ekhayeni lakho

Ukuyeka ukunqunyulwa kwindalo esingqongileyo eyonakalisa ukukhula kwabantwana kwiindawo ezisezidolophini, sicebisa ukuba ezinye izimvo zibandakanye nendalo ekhayeni lakho.

Abantwana nezilwanyana

Siyonwaba sidlala kule Pet Parade kunye nomntwana wethu onomdla wokudlala kunye nokuhlamba kwishower yakhe.

Senza ngathi ngugqirha wamazinyo

Kule vidiyo ihlekisayo yaMathoyizi amancinci, sidlala ngeplastikhi ukuze sibe ngugqirha wamazinyo, besonwabile, phantse asoyiki ukuya!

Inkululeko ebantwaneni

UPeppa kunye noGeorge Pig bayakonwabela ukutsiba emanzini, banexesha elimnandi! Kwaye kumnandi kangakanani ukudlala ngokukhululekileyo nangona kufuneka unike ingqalelo uMama noTata ihagu.

thetha nabantwana

Izinketho kwimfundo yabantwana

Ukufundisa abantwana akukho lula, kodwa kubo ukuba basebenzisane ngakumbi kwaye akukho mizabalazo yamandla, ukhetho alunakusilela.

ukuqala njani umkhwa wokufunda iincwadi

Uwuqala njani umkhwa wokufunda

Uwuqala njani umkhwa wokufunda, ukuze abantwana abancinci basebenze kuzo zonke izifundo. Fumanisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo kunye neMadreshoy.

Buyela esikolweni kunye nePeppa Pig

UPeppa Pig ubuyela esikolweni kwaye alibale ukwenza imisebenzi ebithunyelwe nguNkosikazi Gazelle. Ungaphuthelwa yile vidiyo yeToys encinci ukuze ufumanise ...

Umfazi okhulelweyo

Inkululeko yokuba ngumama

Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ndithatha isigqibo sokuncancisa kwaye ndizinikezele kuphela kumzali? Kwaye ukuba andiyenzi? Ngaba ukubonakaliswa kwenkululeko yokuba ngumama kubalulekile?

Ukufumanisa i-Grimm's Rainbow

Siyayazi le nto yokudlala ingaqhelekanga isetyenziswa yiMontessori Methodology kwaye sifunda ngamanye amathuba omdlalo anayo.

Siyayazi i-Bee Bot robot

Sifunda ukudlala ngale robhothi yabantwana inceda abantwana ukuba basondele kwihlabathi leerobhothi kunye neenkqubo

Funda ixabiso lobuhlobo ngokudlala

Ubuhlobo lixabiso elibaluleke kakhulu esinokuthi silifundise abantwana bethu ngokudlala nabalinganiswa babo ababathandayo.Sidlala nePinypon ukuyifunda!

Ngaba ndingamitha nge-precum?

Abasetyhini abaninzi bayathandabuza ukuba singakhulelwa nge-precum. Apha siza kusombulula ezona ziqhelekileyo ukuze uhlale uzolile

Amantombazana kunye

Funda ukwabelana

Ngaba kufuneka sibafundise ukuba babelane? Ukuba asenzi njalo, ngaba uya kucingela isiqu sakhe? Ngaba sifuna ukuba ububele buzalelwe kuye okanye bube sisinyanzelo semfundo?

Umdlalo wokuloba

Isixhobo sokuloba iPeppa Pig

Kule vidiyo iithoyi zincinci siza kufunda ukudlala ngekiti yokuloba kaPeppa Pig kunye nentonga yokuloba emnandi kakhulu.

Ividiyo yePeppa Pig

UPeppa Pig uyahamba ngebhowula

Joyina uPeppa Pig kule vidiyo intsha yokudlala esiya kuyo kwi-bowling alley ukuphonononga amanani kunye nokukhuthaza ubuhlobo nabahlobo bakhe. Uyeza?

umntwana esoyika

Unonophelo olunomdla kunye namakhwenkwe

Ngaba amakhwenkwe afumana imfundo eyahlukileyo ekukhuleni kwawo ngokubhekisele kumantombazana? Ukuba kunjalo, ngaba kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nolondolozo olongezelelekileyo ngakumbi?