Umama omtsha akayekanga ukuba ngumfazi, ufuna ukuziva kunye namava e-orgasm yakhe, kodwa ubomi bakhe obusondeleyo kunye nobulili buye batshintsha.
Emva kokubeleka, umzimba nengqondo yomfazi ziyatshintsha. Iinyanga zokuqala umfazi kufuneka aqhele ukwabelana ngesondo kwaye azame ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo, okanye ubuninzi uyolo ngesondo kunye ne-orgasms. Emva koko, siza kuchaza izizathu zokuba kutheni umfazi kunye nomama bonwabele ii-orgasms.
Ubomi besondo emva kokuba ngumama
Indlela yokufumana isondo emva kokuba umntwana eguqukile, ngakumbi ekuqaleni. Ukulungelelaniswa kufikelela kuzo zonke iindawo ezijikeleze abafazi. Umzimba uyachacha kuphazamiseko lomzimba. Amanxeba athatha ixesha ukuphilisa kunye nomcimbi wesondo, Ukuziva uyonwabile kwakhona, ngakumbi ii-orgasms kwabasetyhini, kuye kubize kakhulu.
Baninzi bafazi Bakholelwa ngempazamo ukuba yonke into izakubuyela kwikhondo layo eliqhelekileyo, kwaye phakathi kwezinye izinto, umba wesini uthatha ixesha ukuba ube yinxalenye encinci yento owawuyiyo. Uninzi lwabasetyhini noomama bathi baphulukana neminqweno yabo yesini, kwaye kwangaxeshanye abanye bakhalaza ngokungonwabi kwabo kunye nokusilela kwabo ukuthambisa xa besabelana ngesondo. Ngayo yonke le nto yokufikelela kwi-orgasm kubonakala ngathi akunakulindeleka okwangoku.
Ukuzama ukufezekisa ii-orgasms
Baninzi oomama noomama, abathi baphulukana nomnqweno wabo wesini, kwaye kwangaxeshanye, abanye bakhalaza ngokungonwabi kwabo kunye nokusilela kwabo ukuthambisa xa besabelana ngesondo.
Xa owasetyhini evakalelwa kukuba uphinde wachacha, eyona nto iphambili kukuba aqhubeke nokwabelana ngesondo ngokupheleleyo emva kwe ukuhlala yedwa. Kunye Icandelo leKesareya , inokuzanywa kwangaphambilana, ukuba lo mfazi womelele. Logama nje umama okhulisiweyo engaziva engonwabanga, okanye "ebophelelekile," ngengqondo yokonwabisa iqabane lakhe, unokuvavanya amanzi ngokuzolileyo. Khetha ukuzama ngobunono, nge-caresses, imidlalo yezesondo, ukuvuselela ukuma, ukutshintsha indlela yokuqalisa isenzo sesondo, kwaye ngaphandle kokulibala ukuba umzimba awukho kwipesenti ezilikhulu, ngakumbi ukuba bekukho iinyembezi kwaye kusophisa.
Umfazi ngoku ongumama uziva esoyika kwaye ethe-ethe. Unoloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngumnqweno wesondo, ungaziva u-orgasm, okanye ukwazi ukunika iqabane lakho ixesha elifanelekileyo Nangona kunjalo, nobabini nibe nomonde. Yonke into ihlala ibuyela esiqhelweni ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ngoku usana nokudinwa kuhlala kufikelela kwiingcinga zikanina. Ukongeza, izinto zokuthambisa zinokuba ziimanyano ezinkulu xa kufikwa ekufuneni ukusondelelana kunye nobunzima.
Esi sibini: inkxaso kunye nokuqonda
Esi sibini sisisiseko kulwalamano. Kuya kufuneka ukuqonda kwaye kunike ixesha kunye nendawo kumfazi, ngamanye amaxesha angaziva elungiselelwe okanye yena. Umama omtsha akayekanga ukuba ngumfazi kwaye uneemfuno zakhe zesondo, nangona i-libido ilele ngakumbi. Ufuna ukuziva kunye namava e-orgasms yakho, kodwa ubudlelwane babo butshintshile kwaye imiboniso yothando kufuneka ilandelane ukuvumela into ukuba ifezekiswe.
Ukuba owasetyhini uncancisa umntwana wakhe, uya kuqaphela ukoma okungaphezulu kwilungu lobufazi ngenxa yokwehla kwe-estrogen kwaye oku kunokubangela iintlungu xa usabelana ngesondo. Ukuthambisa iigel kunye nekhrim, kunye nokuzola okuninzi kunye nokuthanda xa uqala ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, iya kuqhuba ukonwabela isenzo sesondo. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba owasetyhini athethe neqabane lakhe. Chaza imeko yakho kunye nenkxalabo kuye ukuze baqondane kwaye uphephe ukungakhululeki. Isikhundla esingathandekiyo kuye kukuphezulu kwendoda, ekunokuba yiyo elawula indlela yokungena kuya kwenzeka.