Uninzi lwabantwana abaneminyaka eli-13 ubudala banexhala malunga notshintsho olwenzeka emzimbeni. Banovakalelo ngakumbi kunesiqhelo, bayasabela, kwaye banamaxesha okutshintsha kwemozulu. Bagxeka phantse yonke into eyenzekayo kubo kwaye babe ngabafuna kakhulu.
Ukuba uchonga konke oku emntwaneni wakho, ungakhathazeki. Zonke ezi zimo zengqondo ziqhelekile kulutsha lweli xesha.
Yintoni onokuyenza ukujongana nabantwana abaneminyaka eli-13 ngendlela elungileyo?
- Thetha naye ngendlela icacile kwaye ithe ngqoKe unokujongana nazo zonke izihloko, nkqu nezona zibuthathaka.
- mbuze into oyaziyo kunye nento oyicingayo malunga nale micimbi kwaye wabelana naye ngezimvo kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Mamela ukuba bathini na kuwe kwaye baphendule imibuzo yabo ngokuzolileyo nangokwemvelo.
- Khuthaza yakho inkululeko kwaye yomeleza ukuzithemba.
- Kubalulekile ukuba udibane nabahlobo bakhe kunye nabo ufunda nabo.
- Ibonisa umdla kwisikolo sabo nakwimisebenzi yangaphandle.
- Mkhuthaze ukuba azenzele izigqibo. Bahloniphe, nanini na kunokwenzeka, nokuba ucinga ukuba baphosisile. Ukwenza iimpazamo kukwayinxalenye yenkqubo yokufunda nokukhula. Mncede amkele imiphumo yezenzo zakhe, nokuba zilungile okanye azibi.
- Ukuseka ngokucacileyo nangokuchanekileyo iinjongo kunye nolindelo ulindele ntoni kuye. Olunye ukhetho kukuzibhala phantsi ukuze uzikhumbule xa kufuneka njalo. Unokutyikitya uhlobo lwesivumelwano. Kuya kufuneka ubeke imihla ethile kunye neenkqubo zokwenza ukuba icace ngakumbi. Umzekelo unokuba: ukucoca igumbi lam rhoqo ngentsasa yangoMgqibelo.
- Uhlala kufuneka uyazi ukuba iphi kwaye ukuba kukho abantu abadala abakhoyo kuloo ndawo. Ninokuvumelana ukuba ungamtsalela nini umnxeba, ukuba ungamfumana phi kwaye ulindele ukuba abuyele kweliphi ixesha ekhaya.
- Cwangcisa imigaqo ecacileyo kuba xa uwedwa ekhaya.
Ungakunceda njani uhlale usempilweni?
Khuthaza abantwana abaneminyaka eli-13 ukuba benze umthambo kusoloko kungumbono olungileyo. Ungacebisa ukujoyina iqela okanye ukumkhuthaza ukuba adlale umdlalo awuthandayo. Umsebenzi wasekhaya, njengokuthatha inja uhambe okanye ukunceda ukucoca imoto, kuyanceda ukuyigcina isebenza.
Ixesha lesidlo libaluleke kakhulu kwiintsapho. Ukutya kunye kunceda umntwana wakho enze ukhetho olungcono lokutya, uhlale kwisisindo esifanelekileyo, kwaye ikhuthaza ingxoxo phakathi kwamalungu osapho lwakho.
Nciphisa ixesha elichithwa ngumntwana wakho phambi kwekhompyuter lingadluli kwi-1 okanye iiyure ezimbini ngosuku, ngemidlalo yevidiyo okanye phambi komabonwakude.