Enye ye Iingcebiso esizinikwa ngootishala, kunye noomakhulu noomakhulu, kukufundela umntwana ibali ngaphambi kokuba alale. Lo ngumzuzu okwabelwana ngawo kwaye usondele kakhulu phakathi kukamama nomntwana, kunye noyise. Eli xesha sisipho somntwana, kwaye nakithi, ke nokuba udinwe kangakanani, ungaphoswa.
Ukucinga ukuba usuku lude, wena nonyana wakho, Siza kukucebisa ngamabali amafutshane onokumfundela wona ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Ayizukuthatha ngaphezulu kwemizuzu emihlanu kwaye uyakubona indlela umvuzo ofanele ngayo. Kuya kuba ngumzuzu osondeleyo phakathi kwenu.
Izinto eziluncedo zokufundela umntwana ngaphambi kokulala
Nokuba umntwana akakwazi kufunda Kubalulekile ukuba ubone indlela oyiphatha ngayo incwadi, kwaye umxelela amabali aphuma kuloo nto yomlingo amagama abhaliweyo. Ngomqondiso wemihla ngemihla wokubalisa ibali uyakube usenza iqhina eliza kukhuthaza umntwana ukuba aye ezincwadini. Umntwana uya kuziva exabisekile kwaye ethandwa, unikezela ixesha elikhethekileyo kuye, eliqinisa ukuzithemba kwakhe.
Njengengcebiso sikuxelela lonto sukukhetha amabali aneemeko okanye abalinganiswa abanokudala ukungazinzi ebantwaneni. Khangela amabali anomusa, kunye nexabiso kwaye ngaphandle kwamanyathelo amaninzi. Ngale ndlela siza kunceda umntwana ukuba alale ngcono. Ungcono ngakumbi kunokubukela umabonwakude okanye iselfowuni, kunye nezibane ezingazuzisiyo xa uphumla ngokwaneleyo.
Kubantwana abancinci, ukubafundela amabali abantwana kubanceda ukuba bafumane isigama ngakumbi kwaye baphucule ukuthetha kwabo ngomlomo. Apha Sincoma amabali amakhwenkwe namantombazana aneminyaka emi-3 ubudala. Kwaye kubantwana abadala kancinci, ungabacela ukuba ibe ngabo abafundela ibali, ngokwenza njalo baphucule ingqalelo yabo, ukugxila, kunye nokufunda upelo.
Amabali amafutshane anamaxabiso okulala
Senze ifayile ye- Ukukhethwa kwamabali ama-3 amafutshane kakhulu aya kunceda umntwana afunde amabali anexabiso. Ungafumana la mabali kwi-intanethi kwaye uwaprinte, okanye ubuze umntu osebenza kwilayibrari kunye nomthengisi weencwadi ukuba akwenzele. Musa ukumangaliswa xa ekucela ukuba uphinde uphinde uyifunde kwakhona.
- Intaba nentaka. Eli bali lifutshane libalisa ibali lobuhlobo phakathi kwentaka nentaba. Ngayo ungadlulisa ixabiso labahlobo kunye nokunyaniseka kwabo.
- Uthando olungenampazamoLibali elihlekisayo labantwana elibalisa ibali lothando phakathi koonobumba M no-B. Ngeli bali, abantwana baya kusazi ukuba kutheni uM no-B behlala behamba kunye
- ULeo nebhayisekile yakhe, libali lokufundisa umntwana wakho ukulawula ukudandatheka. Imalunga nenkwenkwe, uLeo, oba nomsindo kakhulu ngalo lonke ixesha esiwa kwibhayisikile yakhe.
Lawa ngamanye amabali esiwacebisayo, kodwa sinokuninzi.
Amabali amafutshane okufundisa abantwana
Ngoku sikubonisa uthotho lwamabali amafutshane anokukunceda ukuba abantwana bakho bageze amazinyo abo ngesibindi, okanye bangabethi abantakwabo, kwaye basenokushiya ibhedi yakho bagqibe ekubeni balale bodwa.
- UAna kunye neklabhu yemouse, Imalunga nentombazana engafuniyo ukuxukuxa kuba ikhetha ukudlala. Kude kube lusuku olunye adibana neempuku ezintle.
- UNacho ulala yedwa, ibali likaNacho, inkwenkwe eya ebhedini yabazali bayo yonke imihla ebusuku yoyika kakhulu sisilo esoyikekayo esabonakala emaphupheni aso. Ngethamsanqa, umama wakhe umfundisa iqhinga ukuze isidalwa singaze simtyelele kwakhona.
- Hamba, pacifier, uhambe. Eli libali elifutshane malunga nokuba uSimón kufuneka ajongane njani nomzuzu wokuyeka i-lollipop kunye nokuba mdala.
- Ayinamatheli. Libali elisinika isisombululo santlandlolo kubantakwethu ababini abathanda ukulwa bade babethane.
Ngalezi zindululo Sifuna ukuphuma kwiintsomi kunye neentsomi, kodwa zisemthethweni. Kwakumalunga nokukunika ezinye iindlela, esinethemba lokuba sikuqinisekisile.